How to Get Creative with Couples Toys

How to Get Creative with Couples Toys

by Jacee Niblett - February 21, 2024

If you’ve been reading my articles for any length of time, you probably know I’m always going on about “getting creative” with sex toys. It’s because this creativity is my FAVORITE part of using sex toys (close second is the increased access to orgasm for vulva owners). Especially during partnered sex, toys give you so many ways to play outside of what you might see represented in media.

So this week I’m going to give you some concrete examples of what I mean when I encourage you to get creative with sex toys - along with some accompanying recommendations, of course!

Keep reading if you’re ready to amp up your game with a partner.

Mutual Masturbation

Arguably one of the most underrated sexual experiences, mutual masturbation is a great way to connect with your partner and toys make it so much better! The possibilities are endless with this kind of play - use strokers, clitoral vibes, anal vibes, g-spot dildos, or whatever suits you. Pro tip - use toys that only require one hand so that each of your free hands can add some more touch onto your bodies.

Shop the ZOLO Heatstroke Warming Pulsing Male Masturabtor

Butt plug + Penetration Combo

Similar to the classic clit vibe and vaginal penetration combo, adding a butt plug to penis-and-vagina sex can add so much pleasure to the experience. It can be vibrating for extra sensation, or non-vibrating for a sense of pleasurable pressure whether you’re the receiver or the giver of penetration. If your anatomy includes a prostate, adding a curved anal plug can be a game changer. Try this one out if anal stimulation intrigues you!

Shop the Eclipse Pleasure Probe

Dual Ended Dildo

If you are in a partnership where both parties are vulva-owners, consider trying out a dual ended dildo! These toys are really fun to play with and offer a pretty unique sexual experience to your repertoire. You can both experience simultaneous penetration sensations and even add some clitoral stimulation with other toys too if that’s your vibe! They come in many different styles, but I recommend going with something made out of either glass or silicone.

Shop the Strap U Double Charmer Silicone Double Dildo with Harness

Ready to get started and create your own version of fun? Use any of these suggestions, or more importantly - use them as a starting point for your explorative journey and find new ways that are unique to you, your relationship, and your body. Truly, these 3 ideas don’t even scratch the surface of possibilities. Check out any of the products mentioned at any of our physical locations or our extensive online inventory. We can’t wait to have you!